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Thursday, November 12th, 2020 03:47 pm
Irish got a letter today addressed to him by name from Mrs. N.'s class at the middle school. Inside was a letter from a boy named George that started "Dear Hero". He's in sixth grade (age 11-12 most likely), learning about veterans, and wrote to say thank you and ask a few questions. Most likely it's a homework assignment but it was so nice to get. Irish is a Viet Nam veteran, so all of this thanking a vet and teaching kids that they're the good guys isn't an experience he had when he came home. It's gratifying that he's getting some of that experience now. I think he was very skeptical the first time someone younger than he is shook his hand in public and said "thanks for your service" (he's usually wearing a ball cap that says Viet Nam Veteran on it) but now when it happens he accepts it at face value. He was happy to get the letter and has already responded with a short one of his own. George's letter is one for the scrap book, not for the recycle bin.
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Wednesday, November 11th, 2009 10:10 pm
Some years I do my standard Veterans Day rant but I'm not this year. I think Veterans Day doesn't exist where I live and work - I haven't seen or heard any mention of it locally. Sucks. We have three veterans in our office but no acknowledgment of them. (Wait, there was some mention of it - because the courts were all closed. One thing about being a government employee - there's no shortage of days off!)

Anyway, today is my paternal grandfather's birthday. He died in 1973 (the day before Halloween - known as Devil's Night in Michigan, where we lived - no significance to that, just thought I'd throw that in), when I was 10; if he were alive today, he'd be 109. He's probably glad not to have to be 109! Grampa - Herbert Henry, known as Bert or HH - was born in 1900 in Nottingham, England. He emigrated to Michigan in the spring of 1920, while still 19. Never saw his parents again, in fact, didn't return to England for a visit until 1953. He turned 18 on Armistice Day and never was in the military. (His two-years-older brother William - Bill - was in the Army in WWI.) Grampa never lost his accent and I only ever saw him wear either workpants with a white button-down shirt or a suit. Always grey, I think. He never left the house, or at least the property, without his hat. He smoked and he liked overripe bananas. Black ones. The only time I ever spent the night at his house by myself, he cooked Dinty Moore Beef Stew for dinner. Grampa was left-handed but was forced to switch to the right hand at school. He wrote with his right hand, drew with his left, and painted with either. He was a housepainter - my oldest cousin, who used to work for him in the summers, says he could draw a perfectly straight line along the length of a wall with no ruler. Grampa was not a sentimental man but he wrote at least one poem. Though a Christian, he was not a church-goer when I knew him, though he attended regularly when my dad and his siblings were growing up. Except Christmas and Easter - he said he would give up his seat on those days to one of those people that never darkened a church door except on those two holidays. There was a small hill in the back yard at his house and my sisters and I had so much fun rolling down it. Grampa's house was where I watched one of the Apollo rockets lift off.
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So happy Grampa's Birthday everyone!

(And seriously - to all our veterans - thank you.)
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Saturday, November 15th, 2008 10:29 pm
Today I went with S. and her group of Asperger teens to Notre Dame to help pack boxes for troops. It was a pretty laid-back gathering - hosted by a group of Notre Dame students, who paired up with the teens and provided pizza, pop, and snacks and, of course, the game on a big screen. They didn't have a lot of boxes to pack; I think it averaged to about one per teen, which worked out pretty well. (Usually this group gets together about twice a month for a chance to socialize with other teens like themselves; this month she arranged for them to take part in this activity so they can have the opportunity to learn about giving back and volunteering.)

Anyway, these little boxes each contained a hand-made card from the packer, a pair of socks, several different snack items (granola bars, jerky, candy) and drink mixes (coffee, hot chocolate, energy drink), as well as a pack of cards and small toy - a punching ball to blow up or a small rubber ball. I packed mine and couldn't help wondering if this was something we were doing just to make ourselves feel good about doing something or if these little things really mattered to the troops, so when I got home, I told Irish about the things we're sending and asked him if it really made a difference. He told me that, yes, these little things were very welcome. He pointed at the various action figures he has set up and said, "You have to understand, when you're in combat, what you see on those action figures [clothes, various pouches of things, a canteen, and weapons] - that's all you have. That's your world. You bounce from periods of extreme boredom to bouts of sheer terror, with nothing in between. Having a packet of hot chocolate to drink - something the military doesn't give you - or just a small rubber ball to squeeze in your hand or toss around when you're not on watch can make a difference. It doesn't make you ecstatic, but it lets you experience something besides boredom and terror and gives you a lift to know someone you don't know is thinking about you." So while it did make me feel good to do something nice for someone else, what I'm really glad about is that it will make a difference to that someone else. (I remember once Irish telling that he always asked his mom to send him grape Koolaid powder and mini bottles of Tabasco sauce. The Koolaid was to flavor the water, which tasted bad when it was treated with halogen tablets, and the Tabasco for the food, which was generally nasty.)
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Friday, November 14th, 2008 10:34 pm
I planned on posting these links to a couple of YouTube vids on Veteran's Day but didn't have access at home yet and also wasn't really feeling well, so probably wouldn't have gotten around to posting anyway. So I'm late this year.

Not really safe for public viewing only because they might make you cry.

The Green Fields of France

(I can't remember why I was looking up "Green Fields of France" videos last summer, but I was and found this one.)

And also this one (which would be even more appropriate on Anzac Day but I'm posting it now):

The Band Played Waltzing Matilda

And since it's Friday night and I have time to do some hunting, I found a few more:

Footage from Iwo Jima:

Iwo Jima

Korea: In Color

In Color

This one today about the Vietnam war:

Wish You Were Here

(Irish watched this and was telling me the names of different places he could recognize from the footage.)

And finally, one from Canada:

Johnny We Hardly Knew You

These are all downers, aren't they? I didn't really feel like posting happy, "yay! we won!" celebratory vids this Veteran's Day. I know this sounds bizarre and probably crass, but I hope when Obama becomes president, he allows the media to show footage of our dead soldiers and coming home. Bush has prevented video of coffins being offloaded from being shown on the news (and how did that happen in a country with a free press?) - but I think that, whether one believes a war is necessary, whether one agrees with it or not, it should never be sanitized, we - those of us who haven't lost anyone close to us - should not be allowed to forget or gloss over the fact that men and women are dying to accomplish these goals and not everyone who comes home is doing so seated in an airplane. Too many, as in any war, are coming home in a box in the cargo hold.

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My family has been so blessed - there are veterans on both sides of my family and not one - grandparents, uncles, cousins - was lost. They've all come home, since WWI. Am I thankful? Do I believe in miracles? You know it! (Irish wasn't so lucky - he lost all but, I believe, 3 male cousins in Vietnam - so many that the family quit having its annual reunion because it was too heartbreaking.)

In honor of Great Uncle Bill (English Army - WWI), Grampa Gene (Navy), Uncle Ed (Navy), Uncle Bill (Navy), Uncle Jack (Army, I think)(all WWII), Grampa Carl (Korea), Great Uncle Jim (Army or Navy; I don't remember - late 1950s or early 1960s, no combat), Uncle Lee (Air Force - 1957, no combat), Husband Mike (Marines - 1968-1978, 2 tours in Vietname), Cousin Roger (Army - Vietnam), Cousin Mark (English Navy - briefly in the late 1970s), Cousin Wes (Navy - 1990s till just recently, no combat), 2nd Cousin David (Navy - same time frame, no combat), and 2nd Cousin Doug (Navy - 2000s - mostly in Guam, but was stationed in Afghanistan for a year). I've probably forgotten some, particularly in-laws and English relatives; I honor them too.
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Tuesday, November 15th, 2005 10:00 am
I always forget he was a veteran - in fact, I never knew it until the day of his funeral, when a military officer presented a carefully folded flag to my aunt (his sister), almost eight years ago. Read more... )

So I usually forget he was a veteran, not because it wasn't important, but because for so many years I never knew. Thanks to Uncle Lee for his service as well. I won't be forgetting again.
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Friday, November 11th, 2005 10:59 am
Eighty-seven years ago my paternal grandfather, in Nottingham, England, turned 18. At the same time, in Compiegne, France, WWI was ending. I've often joked that grampa should have thanked his mother every year on his birthday for her great timing. There's no doubt that, given his age and class, he would have been drafted had the war continued.

November 11 )

That's the rant for the year. It tends to be an annual thing. *g* Back to fandom now.